Before you left school, did any of your teachers sit you down, and ask: 'How will you use your unique gifts in the world? Did they even explore the term 'unique gift' with you?
And what about your relationships?
The term 'soul-mate' sounds like a wonderful concept, doesn't it?
But did anyone point out to you that it would be impossible for your soul mate to discover your soul, before you discovered your own soul for yourself?
And what about our own children? What are we teaching them?
We'd love them to thrive, be prosperous and go out into the world with confidence. Yet if we lacked an inspirational teacher or important advice from a parent, how can we expect our children to achieve greater richness and abundance than we manage?
Clearly there is a need for us all to seek greater wisdom, be that for ourselves or for a youngster. Lost and unclear where to go for such advice we often turn to a friend or family member and ask for their advice.
But what happens?
Often they have a preconceived idea about the problem based on their own experience. They impart their well-meaning advice based on their view of reality. But what do you get if you listen to their advice?
Their life?
If their life is something you admire and is full of the happiness and abundance you crave, then perhaps the advice might be okay. But it's probably true that most of the people we turn to for advice are our peers. And by definition they're probably doing no better than we are.
So what can you do?
If you are single or discontented in your relationship (and even if you are not), my answer is simple. Find out who you are. If you do this then finding the right work and the right relationship becomes simple.
Why?
Because you're finding who you are and using this as a navigational tool, everything will slot into place so much easier. Sure you'll have bumps, but when we're on the right path, life is so much happier.
And if you have a family, what can you do?
As a step-parent, I came to the conclusion that our family needed to be gelled. For that we had to look at the purpose of the family. The heads of the family need to impart the wisdom in the home, no Barnie Bear and Homer Simpson. And that meant changes in the home. Tough changes!
Like no TV?
For us, yes; no game stations, no game boys, mobile phone texting or any electronic device from Monday to Friday. Of course if you're going to remove these things, you have to replace them.
And you replace them with ...
You.
We got creative in the kitchen, made fun out of cooking, experimenting with the children, seeing what we could make from the ingredients they got out the cupboards, made housework entertaining and imparted little bits of wisdom while teaching life skills. We're a long way from perfect but we are practicing and having fun with it all the time.
Done well, with the emphasis on fun rather than getting the job done these simple ideas bring a family together like you won't believe.
Warm regards
Jo
Unstoppable Life have a unique approach that imparts wisdom, teaches practical skills and empowerment for the individual, and builds teamwork within a family. So, what's your next move: create something for you, or create something for the family? Check out their free newsletter at


If you live in modern society I'm sure at some... Read More
I have finally come to believe something about myself because... Read More
He always looks perfectly put together. He can be in... Read More
Re-entering the dating scene is rather scary, but as a... Read More
It's been said that character is defined by what you... Read More
For the last several years, I have included on my... Read More
Heading back to the car after lunch, a good-looking guy... Read More
While I was growing up, my dad repeatedly told me... Read More
I first heard about this when I read The New... Read More
For any inner-directed individual, much of life feels like you... Read More
When you have an important event to attend there are... Read More
'Image & Professionalism' we hear these words being thrown around... Read More
If it were easy, everyone would do IT; everyone would... Read More
Recently, I came across something strikingly shocking, fascinating, obscure, and... Read More
Most business people would rather have customers seek us out... Read More
Hello Creative Entrepreneurs!I hope this finds you all doing well... Read More
Inside each one of us there's a seed of greatness,... Read More
One of the great things about rapport is that it... Read More
Is being special or unique a property of an object... Read More
Sitting here today in sunny Queensland Australia, I'm reflecting on... Read More
One message we hear from the time we are children... Read More
What role if any, does 'choice' play in the shape... Read More
We all experience a little shyness at times with people... Read More
Ever had a time in your life when those closest... Read More
Once in a while a book comes along that can... Read More
(Excerpts From The Book) Successercising "The Science Of Success Achievement... Read More
You've written out your goals. You read them every day.... Read More
I want to warn you: this article can cause some... Read More
When you have an important event to attend there are... Read More
The other night, leg cramps kept me up at night... Read More
I was working with this guy who wanted to live... Read More
There's no way to fake INTEGRITY. You are either are... Read More
Underearning is a process of not really making enough to... Read More
Invisible braces, like Invisalign, are most popular among adults. For... Read More
Abundance isn't something you find from the outside. Abundance begins... Read More
Have you ever thought much about how some of your... Read More
When my wife and I were searching for a new... Read More
The Law of Attraction says that 'like attracts like'. It... Read More
Recently, at a public function where I was the Toastmaster,... Read More
Meet the most important person you will ever meet in... Read More
Hello, Moon.There you hang, a thin white sliver that cradles... Read More
If you had to write an annual appraisal on yourself... Read More
A lot of your people problems and concerns about what... Read More
Do you feel all alone and out of sorts on... Read More
"I'd like to find a partner who dances. Do you?"... Read More
One of the most important things in Wealth Creation is... Read More
How can we have more abundance in our lives? It... Read More
Where does our motivation come from? What makes us want... Read More
Dr. Wayne Dyer has been an inspiration for me for... Read More
"Imagine a funeral. The preacher's giving the eulogy. And suddenly,... Read More
Attraction |